Friday, December 06, 2019

The Power of Serendipity

Unexpected and sometimes mysterious connections often enable the best directions in our lives.

The word serendipity represents
  one of my favorite concepts.

It actually enables me to get out of bed
  on many mornings.

It's a source of my incurable optimism.

The word refers to events that develop
  in a beneficial way
    for no reason that we can see.

We don't know why serendipity happens,
   but it happens for all of us
      in unexpected times
         and unexpected ways.

For years I have believed that serendipity
   was a word coined by the hippies of my youth.

It turns out that it dates from the 18th Century.

It's derived from an attempt to transliterate
   the Arabic form
      of the Sanskrit name for Sri Lanka
         the island  south of India
             formerly known as Ceylon.

I won't try to chase those developments,
  even though I love etymology,
    but I will say that the word
      was first seen in literature
        in a letter written in 1754.

There was a reference in the letter
   to the Three Princes of Serendip (Sri Lanka).

The original serendipity
  was the finding of a famous painting
    in an unexpected place.

The word unexpected is a key to the meaning.

Another way of thinking about serendipity
  is that it often involves
    unintended consequences
      with an unexpectedly positive result.

We don't know where serendipity comes from.

That's why it's serendipity!

It is an important part of our story,
  yours and mine,
    right here in the North Idaho UU congregation.

My presence here this morning,
   and even my relationship with this congregation
      as minister
          are the results of serendipity -
             or serendipities -
                since there were more than one. 

When I was a teenager,
  like many young people,
    I went through a period of questioning
      many of the things I was taught,
        including the teachings of my Lutheran faith.

During my time of exploration,
  one of the places I visited was a UU church.

I was intrigued, to say the least.

By then I was already interested in ministry,
  but my Texas German Lutheran Stepfather
    could not and would not condone
      any interest I might have had in the UU faith.

So I ended up as a Lutheran pastor,
  and I spent my years of parish ministry in Texas.

Visiting my children at the University of Idaho
  which they were attending
    (interesting story there, too),
      I fell in love with the Palouse.

With four mild seasons (most of the time)
  I found great relief from the two seasons of Texas:
    hot and hotter.

When it came time for me to retire,
  the Paradise called the Palouse
    was the place for me.

My spiritual serendipity
  was discovering that
    my favorite faith community there
      was the UU Church of the Palouse
        in Moscow, Idaho.

I felt right at home there,
  and that church is the place where I met Beth.

(Talk about a serendipity!)

Meanwhile, my daughter, Karen,
  was doing internship as a school psychologist
    in Rathdrum, Idaho.

When her college work was completed,
  she moved to Coeur D'Alene
    and worked for the school district here.

Sorensen Elementary was one of the schools
  assigned to her.

Her doctor was Jessie Lorion,
  and as is easy to imagine,
    they became friends
      as well as doctor - patient.

At one point, they were discussing churches.

Karen mentioned
  that her Dad was a retired Lutheran pastor
    and a member of the UUCP
      a Luthertarian, if you will.

Jessie was glad to hear that
  and asked if Karen thought
    I might be willing to come up
      and speak here sometimes.

Karen thought I just might,
   and she was right!

The rest of that serendipity
  is our story together.

Over time, we have come to love one another
  in ways that are continuing to unfold today.

  There are a number of serendipities
    that have brought us
      to the point where we are today.

I want to mention just a few of them.

It may be the greatest serendipity
  involving this congregation
    for Beth and me during her illness and treatment
      were many members who opened their homes,
        providing us a place to stay
          and wonderful meals
            just when we needed that kind of care.

Michael Henry and Sue Greenberg
  are involved with another serendipity.

Mike and I were friends online for a number of years
  before we met in real life.

He was a great help to me with my online church.

On the day before Beth's chemotherapy began
  he contacted me online,
    and we talked about the fact that our homes
      were only a few miles apart in real life.

He and Sue with their friendship
  were a vital source of support to Beth and me
    in the time of her treatment.

After her death Mike was more help to me
  than I can begin to describe.

He came with me to the memorial service
  offered by our NIUU congregation,
    and he saw to it that I was not alone afterwards.

He got me to the worship service here the next day,
  and he has been a true friend to me.

The serendipity of Mike in my life
   came to me exactly when I needed him.

Those of you
  who remember Beth's memorial service
    with our congregation
      will probably remember Paul Barber,
        the Hospice Chaplain
          who was a great support to me
            by helping Sue Hansen-Barber
              lead the service.

It was a wonderful serendipity last week
  when I received
    a video chat call from him via Facebook
      last week
        from his new home in Bolivia.

The most recent serendipity for us with the NIUU
  brought you and me together
    as minister and congregation.

The UUA General Assembly
     came to Spokane in 2019.

Our congregation's leaders
  gained a new understanding
    of the meaning of the independence
      of congregations in our UUA.

There are standards which the UUA provides
  for ministers and congregations
    as we develop our relationships.

At the same time, a small congregation like ours
  can go rogue, calling a minister
    who is not necessarily a life-long UU
      or even a recent official convert.

That means that I can be your minister today,
  and our relationship is not prevented
    by any official rules that would keep us apart.

Serendipity has brought us together,
  and there will be new experiences
    of unexpected benefits among us
      to enable us to serve our community
        and each other.

Serendipity may help in other areas of our lives
  including our best hope
    in our struggles with climate change.

There have already been unexpected opportunities.

Sustainable energy today
  is creating more jobs in electricity production
    than traditional sources of energy
      like fossil fuels.

Serendipity will bring us new opportunities,
  and we may be brought to notice them
    by the urgency of our need for them.

Many kinds of inventions have come to be
  because of serendipity.

One of my favorites is Velcro.

When George de Mestral, a Swiss engineer,
  was on a hiking trip through the woods,
    he found burrs clinging to his pants
      and also to his dog's fur.

He looked at the burrs under a microscope,
  and he discovered that the burr's hooks
    would cling to anything loop-shaped.

So a serendipity resulted in a new, useful product.

Again, unintended consequences
  that bring about a positive result
    are serendipities.

Some of those are highly beneficial,
  much greater than convenience.

A kind of bacterium that eats petroleum 
  because of the exploration
    of the deepest place in the ocean,
      the Marianas Trench.

Soon, exactly when we need it most,
   someone may find a microbe
      that sequesters carbon in a stable form.

If so, we may be saved by serendipity once again.

There are many forms and occasions
  of unexpected benefits
   from seemingly unrelated sources.

We benefit from them more than we know.

This truth is one of my personal sources of hope.

As I said at the start of this sermon,
  it gets me out of bed many mornings.

It's one of life's mysteries.

We can benefit from it every day,
  but I doubt that we will ever fully understand
    what causes serendipity.

Maybe it's the quarks!

Those are the subatomic particles
  that bring about unexpected connections
    in our daily lives.

So the quarks would be a good candidate
  for causing serendipity, right?

In any case,
  I'm grateful for serendipity,
    and I'll be looking forward to good surprises
      that will make all our lives better.

Amen
So mote it be
Blessed be

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